Do you think all men with neatly combed hair and striped shirt are respectable? Do you feel any woman in a 12 yard sari is religious? We all have some preconceived notions on gender, race, culture, relationships and the world in general. Nothing can change this set of deeply ingrained ideas except a direct experience of life where convenient generalizations don’t work.
A friend of mine believes in same-sex relations. When he declared he was gay, his childhood friends were surprisingly at ease. There was no ‘shock effect’ to his announcement. As an activist, he has tried to create awareness and an acceptance of the fact that India always had space for multiple gender orientations. Professionally a history teacher, he has been able to provide precedents from ancient myths, texts and historical records.
In one of our early conversations in Delhi, I had pointed out that I don’t comprehend his notions of sexuality since mine would be so very different. But I do agree there’s nothingRead More »from Profile View