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    Marriage is good for physical as well as mental health

    Washington, Jan 28 (ANI): Long-term committed relationships are good for mental as well as physical health and this benefit increases over time, suggests a new study.

    David and John Gallacher from Cardiff University say that on average married people live longer.

    They say that women in committed relationships have better mental health, while men in committed relationships have better physical health, and they conclude that, "on balance it probably is worth making the effort."

    Men's physical health probably improves because of their partner's positive influence on their lifestyle and "the mental bonus for women may be due to a greater emphasis on the importance of the relationship", they write.

    But the journey of true love does not always run smoothly, maintain the authors, pointing to evidence that relationships in adolescence are associated with increased adolescent depressive symptoms.

    And not all relationships are good for you, they add, referring to evidence that single people have better mental health than those in strained relationships.

    They also confirm that breaking up is hard to do, saying "exiting a relationship is distressing" and divorce can have a devastating impact on individuals. Having numerous partners is also linked with a risk of earlier death.

    They conclude that while relationship failures can harm health this is not a reason to avoid them. A good relationship will improve both physical and mental health and perhaps the thing to do is to try to avoid a bad relationship rather than not getting into a relationship at all.

    The study has been published in the Student BMJ. (ANI)

     

    304 comments

    • A Yahoo! User  •  1 year 4 months ago
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      • Neeraj 1 year 4 months ago
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      • Rohan 1 year 4 months ago
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      • Gary 1 year 4 months ago
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    • guru  •  1 year 4 months ago
      hi friends , i am 32 and my fiancy is 30 right now my court ship period is going my marriage is going to be in march its a arrange marriage for bieng loyel to her i told her that i am not virgin and i had sex 4 to 5 times in my life its almost one month i told her about this now the time is coming near to our marriage she told me that we should backout from marriage bcs she quit depressed from my past though i told her that please forget the past, she was not in my life at that time, i also commited that i will not do anything like this in future. what to do friends please help ??
      • S 1 year 4 months ago
        honesty is always not the best policy
      • Sharjah 1 year 4 months ago
        Marriage is a bond. U cannot force to build that bond without the consent of both side. If the girl is not willing to marry u plz back out. U do not have the right to force her. I guess u'll get someone who will be eager to marry u despite knowing all the facts. I congratulate u for having the strength to tell the truth. I am married to a person who had a physical relation with his ex. I do not have any problem. I am happy. He loves me a lot.So do not give up. Just chill.
      • neeraj 1 year 4 months ago
        ok accepted that uve committed mistakes in ur past but tht doesnt mean tht u cannot make up.and make up only if u really really love tht girl coz its gonna b a lifetime affair.ur not gonna b in th relationshp for one or two months.if u really feel like making up thn tell n express tht girl tht how important she is for you.and u can do anything or quit anythng for her.she is taking ths step coz she is insecure.u assure her of love respect and ur 100% commitment in th relationshp.and most imprtantly do accept ur mistake.may be u dont or dint feel at tht time tht it was a mistake but do apologise for not letting her be the first woman u had physical relationshp with.and tell her tht she is all tht u want in ur future.
    • suchi  •  1 year 4 months ago
      Dear all,

      Marriage is a Pure Gamble, like any other thing in life. No matter how much u know the guy / gal, you never get to know fully about the person before marriage at all. Marriage is good only if ur spouse is good, else its hell, especially with these extra marital relations coming up these days. Its more of a companionship, partners must be respecting and loving each other, trust is also important. Things like infedility and anger destroy a marriage.

      In todays world, Marriage has lost its value though, its more of a formality rather than love bonding, guys marry to keep their parents happy and gals for emotional support.

      Never get married in a hurry, know the person to ur best and then go for it, be it a friend or a stranger, all are alike.

      On the other hand being single is also ok as long as one is happy. If you wanna marry be ready to compromise, sacrifice and loyal and trustworthy.

      regards.
      • narender 1 year 4 months ago
        Yes i agree with u
      • Munir 1 year 4 months ago
        Really you are very smart and positive thinker..Munir Khan..
      • karthi 1 year 4 months ago
        yes super!!!!!i agree
    • sibin  •  1 year 4 months ago
      I m married guy aged 30. I found my girl-friend more loving n caring than my wife. And i feel very good with my GF. Is dat harmful then ?????
      • v gupta 1 year 4 months ago
        Keep ur girl friend as friend only. Dont cheat ur wife. Find out why u feel that ur wife is not as loving and caring as ur friend. Is there any deficiency in the love and affection extended by you? Do u treat ur wife with the same kind of understanding and sympathy as u do towards ur girl friend?
      • abhishek 1 year 4 months ago
        You are married ,still you have GF.It's not strange,but just think about your future,when you will have your kids,what they think about you,you will get the right answer......
      • Sakshi Vaid 1 year 4 months ago
        i agree with abhishek.i am 19 yrs but fully beleive in committted relationship.dont chaet ur wife..u;ll regret
    • Men Right Activist  •  1 year 4 months ago
      Now a days marriage is not applicable men in this country...also not good for the men family...because once you get married means you are bring false the 498a and DV to for your family...now a day���s bride family will come with their dirty plan of 498a and DV and will extract huge money from you what you or your parents save for some bad time or old age...because bride family eyes on your small amount...we need protest for the marriage laws...if all the boys thing once we will not to get married...bride family will not able to misuse the law further and their easy earning process will get stop. Now a days this become a very common issue on our society, and our govt. is keep silent not action against this laws and girls are keep misusing the law. such a high profile person why he should do this, and now a day���s who is having time to do all this work, where we don���t have time to sleep. this kind of girls and their family should get punish for this. now a days you can see 99% girls are putting false cases and try to extract the money in the name of marriage. other then getting married better to protest it...if all the boys thing once we will not get married...bride family cannot even think to misuse the law further and their easy earning process get stop.
      • Created y 1 year 4 months ago
        Yes True!
        498a is a conspiracy of law makers and implementers(men in uniform) to leads India towards a free sex country. No boundaries and social bonding at all. This law soon will be applicable to live-in relationships also. So that Indian lifestyle limited to one night stands only.
      • Men Right Activist 1 year 4 months ago
        I feel don't even think about any relation just think about save our parents and family from this kind of society terrorist, or else one day this will ruin our next generation, no one will be happy.
      • S 1 year 4 months ago
        Probably we should start bringing the change from the very beginning like from childhood, its not related to one issue but applies to everything
    • rani  •  1 year 4 months ago
      it is true that a marriage can b good for both mental n physical health.bt not for evryone.
      my experience is bitter about this.it depends on both husband n wife to balance relationships.nothing can be done at one sided.partner means to understand eachother's feelings caring
    • Reena  •  1 year 4 months ago
      I don't understand if these researches on marriage,love, sex and relationships are real or a time pass article to attract readers...Sometimes they say a bad relationship is more harming than not being in relationship..And definitely divorce is not good but ironically divorce happens when marriage happens...If there is more time given before one decides about marriage then there wont be any divorce...Basically marriage is an institution for fulfilling routine sexual need of people...Kids are not a priority for any married couple in the initial 2-3 years till they get bored and want to explore something new...So they go for kids...I feel marriage has been overestimated in our culture for no good reasons...People indulge in all types of illicit activities even after marriage.
    • baazigar  •  1 year 4 months ago
      yes - marriage is essential for physical and mental development and as well as for long and peaceful life subject to favourable partner - which i did't get it - and i did not divorced her for my baby's future - generally problem arise when in-laws put their nose in to ---
    • smriti  •  1 year 4 months ago
      its nt always like tht.......whn compatibilty is nt there ,the mental health is worst after marriage.......like me........
    • Surinderjit  •  1 year 4 months ago
      The above title should be changed to "MARRIAGE is BEST BUSINESS for GIRLS/BRIDES", yup!

      While HINDU marriage act has really given BRIDE "MATA" "divine mother" status, therefore you find most of newly married couple ending in courts and BRIDE with their power of "MATA" checkmates MALE, even before case it fully heard/decided!

      Well that is good for Government and Lawyers who RUN lucrative business on DIVORCE cases!

      In contrast you hardly find MUSLIM couple ending in courts, why ?
      Why do politician/Government implement "NON EQUAL LAWS"?

      Therefore, you shall soon find marriage gradually disappearing due to "non equal laws".

      Guys on the lighter side: "With No prejudice"

      Fact of life: One woman brings you into this world crying & The other ensures you continue to do so for the rest of your Life!

      The world's thinnest book has only one word written in it: *"Everything"* ; and the book is titled: "What Women Want!"

      Different Phases of a man:
      After engagement: Superman
      After Marriage: Gentleman
      After 10 years: Watchman
      After 20 years: Doberman
    • Annumita  •  1 year 4 months ago
      agree with ur research but my experience says that marriage can be devastating too it can ruin ur carrier,life,happiness if u are married to a wrong person even if the marriage is arranged respect,understanding,love and care r four pillars of this institution which both should understand and sadly in the present scenario most of the so called well qualified men agree to marry a girl only with a hope of getting lots of money in turn of marring a particular girl and when their desires are not fulfilled they retort to extreme steps like harassing the wife or daughter -in-law and even killing them
    • gullapudi  •  1 year 4 months ago
      Life partner is must, i accept it, we have to be true with her. but both the husband and wife should understand each-other well. i really do and love her but we are unhappy to enjoy the life.It is lack of sufficient knowledge. Otherwise, in India, it will be hell.

      Reply
    • Aftab Alam  •  1 year 4 months ago
      1431 years ago Allah's Last Messenger Prophet Muhammad (s.a.a.w.) has already told to this world that "Marriage is good for physical as well as mental health". now people are understanding slowly slowly...
    • Naushad  •  1 year 4 months ago
      It all depends on women...she can make a marriage a heaven or hell..
    • soniya  •  1 year 4 months ago
      let me tell you onething mr.guru...Its really very tough for the girl to accept even you tell the truth...girls hav very fragile mind..so this kind of past events really affect the girls..Same kind of event happened in my life too..But the guy whom I loved , dint tell anything at the begining abt his past life events such as yours... I came to knw through my friends after 2 years of our relationship...When I asked him abt this , he refused it for abt a week ...then he accepted.. I was so true to him but he cheated me.Due to love on him I forgiven (only by words not completely) him......
      On his lie ... I became doubted on him all the time wat ever he does..Truly saying that incident made me completely depressed and now im not normal...Now my situation is 'Neither i leave nor I forgive him'...
      Here People may say anything mr.Guru that ''accepted your mistake so you r not a
      sinner'' so and so like that...
      On my experience I say ''its really hard for the girl to accept you completely till her last breath''..To be practical We are not jesus or buddha to forgive and forget..Put yourself in her situation and think...you will realize wat I said is right....scar never can be erazed and broken heart never can be consoled..
    • Samhitha  •  1 year 4 months ago
      Marriage is boon for a very lucky and rear number of couples whereas in most of the cases it is going to be a bane.Most of the girls look for a safe , secure and a happy married life.If they get an understanding husband, family and societal issues are not a big deal for them to handle.Negative aspects are found in women also but mostly men are found under the negative shade when it comes to maintaining a relationship with a woman.Men always look for newness,if they get bored with a girl within no time and with great ease they can change their partner.But most of the women can not follow the same.Men have immense thirst for money (Dowry) which comes from his partner without putting much effort.Most of the Men never accept that they are expecting dowry,instead they will bring their parents into the picture to escape from getting bad recognition.Before getting married men always act smart and innocent.
    • Priyanka Tiwari  •  1 year 4 months ago
      marriage is only a adjustment..............
    • Strongman  •  1 year 4 months ago
      People tell me that the concept of marriage is vanishing and gradually it is becoming a live-in relationship. At least I read in this forum itself that young generation of today prefer live-in to marriage.Now let me tell you something different. Marriages fail or break when there is lack of trust, commitment, care and honesty of purpose. You start with a live-in relationship which completely lacks the long-term commitment. So your trust and honesty of purpose are bound to be short lived. For those people for whom marriages have failed, it is guaranteed that for them live-in relationships will also fail. For women, they will invariably land up with worser men for live-in relationships. Please remember that a good man will never agree to have a live-in relationship with woman.
    • soniya  •  1 year 4 months ago
      love and marriage are the @#$% words in this world...Guys never could be true in their relationship....Guys are complete fake....If a guy fail to care and support the girl who believes him much..then wat is the meaning to be in a relationship...Guys expect much from girls but they fail to love them truely....Marriage is the ritual which trap the girls in to a dark pit, especially the love marriage..
    • A Yahoo! User  •  1 year 4 months ago
      Marrige is dunia ki sabse khoobsurat feeling hi isko khoobsurat banana aapke or aapke partner dono ke hath me hi