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    Groom stands by raped bride

    Bhopal, Feb. 23: A village wedding in Madhya Pradesh stood out for one reason on Tuesday: the groom had chosen to go ahead with the marriage after learning the bride had been raped two days earlier.

    The groom, a Class XII dropout and farmer, told this newspaper that it was his duty to stand by the bride and fight her battle for justice together.

    "It is a testing time for her for no fault of hers. I have married her and will fight for justice," Achchhe Lal said. The Telegraph is naming the groom with his consent.

    Rape can bring pariah status on the victims and their families in backward Shivpuri district ' which has a sex ratio of less than 900 ' as it can in more developed areas.

    The bride's family had been plunged in despair on Sunday night after a gang of robbers took away all the wedding jewellery and cash, and raped the bride and her sister at gunpoint before leaving.

    The family members, who belong to the backward Lodhi caste, could not believe their eyes when Achchhe turned up at their home two days later at the head of a small wedding party.

    Inspector Jitendra Nagaich, who is investigating the case but has not been able to arrest anyone yet, described the bride's reaction.

    "She had been inconsolable after the incident. But when the groom arrived, she dressed up, prayed to God and thanked everyone from the groom's side," Nagaich said.

    "The atmosphere in the entire village has changed dramatically since then," he added.

    Social activist Sachin Jain, the state convener of the Right to Food Campaign who has travelled widely in the Chambal-Gwalior region, said the incident was path-breaking.

    "That a Lodhi boy has shown the courage to marry a rape victim tells us that this agrarian society is looking to solve its own problems," he said.

    Madhya Pradesh records more rapes than most states. In the Assembly yesterday, state minister Uma Shankar Gupta said that 3,381 women were raped in 2011. Of them, more than 300 were gang-raped.

    The figure was 3,071 in 2009 and 3,220 in 2010. In January this year, 254 rapes were reported in the state, the minister said.

    According to the National Crime Records Bureau, Madhya Pradesh accounted for 2,937 rapes in 2008, which was 13.7 per cent of the 21,467 rapes reported across the country that year.

    Bengal and Uttar Pradesh followed with 2,263 and 1,871 cases, with Nagaland recording the fewest rapes, 19.

    Most of the victims in Madhya Pradesh were from the Scheduled Castes or the Scheduled Tribes.

     

    73 comments

    • Raj  •  Melbourne, Australia  •  3 months ago
      Hats off to the groom and shame on those statistics & our rape infested society!
      • A Yahoo! User 3 months ago
        I join you to Salute the groom.
        Best wishes to the couple .
      • Arthur 3 months ago
        very very best wishes... when those SOB are found please let us know... i wanna kill someone since a long time.
    • debendra  •  New Delhi, Delhi  •  3 months ago
      Bravo! Dear Achhelal.You are worth your name.You really belong to 21st century.We are all bloody hypocrites only talking big things passing comments against each other but have never shown the courage for a social rennaissance.Govt.should encourage such steps and introduce some motivating schemes but should not be later utilised for ulterior,political,selfish mottos.People like him should be given a grand welcome.Again Achhelal has proved that there are still angels on earth and that is only in India.I salute you my dear.
      • Arun 3 months ago
        Achhelal...You are the real hero!!!!!
        She is really lucky to have you.... :)
    • venkat  •  Hyderabad, Andhra Pradesh  •  3 months ago
      the boy is god .. he needs govt of india award as the best humanist. he will be role model for many..

      v barla
      • Amit 3 months ago
        I support you. He should be awarded. so that many people learnt from him.
      • susram 3 months ago
        why cant each person try to be god. we can appreciate others but nobody dare to do for his own.
    • Ashok Kumar  •  Singapore, Singapore  •  3 months ago
      Where are the government and other organisations? Should this person not be awarded with the highest permissible under state orders. Upholding human dignity is the highest one can achieve
      • susram 3 months ago
        He did this human act as his duty.Each human should obey his duty and responsibility to his dependants.he never need a grade or award from anyone.
    • Soovisha  •  Chennai, Tamil Nadu  •  3 months ago
      Hats off to the groom and the bride!! Face life dear couple with courage and love!!
    • edfla  •  Mumbai, Maharashtra  •  3 months ago
      This is atrocious ! But what a good person, the groom. He must be an angel, sent straight from Heaven - Bless him !
    • apatriot  •  3 months ago
      As his name he is really "accha" But shame on Government and legislature who are not at in position to understand the plight of doughters, sisters and mothers. I request all parliamentarians and legislative to make a rule to castrate the basterds who are indulging into RAPE. Saalechhakke ban kar sadak per gumenge tab patachalega RAPE kisko kahte hai.
    • Jhilmil  •  3 months ago
      Saif jaise gadhe ki jagah isko Padamshree do !
    • Dr kinner Shah  •  Mumbai, Maharashtra  •  3 months ago
      acchelal proved his name. in this kalyug such are rare finds
    • narender  •  Mumbai, Maharashtra  •  3 months ago
      a low caste / uneducated boy & his family from backward area has shown, to the higher society, better educated, from better economic background and society from URBAN and SEMI -URBAN, that he /family/village has got better vision and views.
      HE SHOULD BE GRANTED SPECIAL HELP FROM MP AND CENTRAL GOVERNMENT.

      WELL DONE
    • Jackssi..  •  Bangalore, Karnataka  •  3 months ago
      Achchhe Lalno words for me to adore your … you have proved that humanity exist in this world and what is actual “ consciousness”. In fact consciousness exist inside each of us but we never act with its direction.
      Hello so called politicians … learn how to put “words to deeds”….
    • Sumit Kumar  •  Gurgaon, Haryana  •  3 months ago
      You are a great person far greater than our so called political leaders. Please accept my blessings.
    • kriti  •  New Delhi, Delhi  •  3 months ago
      good to knw that such brave hearts exist...hats off.....amrita
    • Amita  •  Tiruchirappalli, Tamil Nadu  •  3 months ago
      wow.... achchelal... the girl is really lucky...... congratulations
    • ORDINARY INDIAN  •  3 months ago
      What a news. I wonder why our all-knowing all-powerful media do not lionise such act of magnamity. Achhe Lal has jusrified his name. All right thinking Indians are immensely proud of him. GOD bless the couple in their quest for justice. Are political scum listening? Your days of misrule is coming to an end. JAGO BHARAT JAGO.
    • Kamalesh  •  Mumbai, Maharashtra  •  3 months ago
      he deserves a Bharat Ratna more than Sachin
    • Bangy  •  Bangalore, Karnataka  •  3 months ago
      Seriously Achchhe Lalji, I am not able to believe your super act. I can just thank you. You deserve a recognition from the govt. And the investigating Inspector / Govt Official can you please find the culprits and hang them in front of the couple, that would be a apt wedding gift. I read the article twice to make sure I read it correctly. Very very rare to read such human acts.
    • KESANG  •  Itanagar, Arunachal Pradesh  •  3 months ago
      Achelalji, you have proved how a human being should be. God will definately help you and your wife.
    • leonard  •  Dubai, United Arab Emirates  •  3 months ago
      Well done Acche lal.......May you and your wife have many years of wedded bliss.....truly commendable...........assholes out there take note
    • AROOP  •  Chennai, Tamil Nadu  •  3 months ago
      Words fail me.................such an honourable act is mind numbing by its honesty n love. Hats off to this real life hero. I know he wud not be reading this. But i am truly overwhelmed by this selfless act. JAI HIND
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