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    10 things women should know about men's brains

    Washington, Jan 2 (ANI): Having a tough time understanding what's going on in your man's mind? Things might just get easier for you, as experts have revealed ten things you should know about a man's brain.

    A man's brain varies tremendously over his lifetime. From his wandering eye to his desire to mate for life, there are some things every woman need to know about a man.

    According to Live Science, here's are the things you need to know about guys' minds.

    10. More emotional

    While females are generally considered the more emotional, infant boys are more emotionally reactive and expressive than infant girls, researchers have found.

    Adult men have slightly stronger emotional reactions, too-but only before they are aware of their feelings, found a 2008 study published in the Scandinavian Journal of Psychology.

    9. More vulnerable to loneliness

    While loneliness can take a toll on everyone's health and brain, older men seem particularly vulnerable, said Louann Brizendine, of the University of California, San Francisco, and author of 'The Male Brain.'

    Men tend to reach out less than women, which exacerbates loneliness and the toll it takes on their brains' social circuits, she said.

    8. Focused on solutions

    While many studies suggest that women are more empathetic than men, Brizendine stressed this is not entirely true. The empathy system of the male brain does respond when someone is stressed or expressing a problem. But the "fix-it" region quickly takes over.

    7. Hard-wired to check out women

    While often linked to aggression and hostility, testosterone is also the hormone of the libido. And guys have six times the amount surging through their veins as women, said Pranjal Mehta, of the Columbia University in New York.

    Mehta and colleagues found that testosterone impairs the impulse-control region of the brain. While it has yet to be studied, this may explain why, as Brizendine says, men ogle women as if on "auto-pilot."

    They often forget about the woman once she is out of their visual field, said Brizendine.

    6. Must defend turf

    "Part of the male job, evolutionarily-speaking, is to defend turf," said Brizendine.

    More research is needed in humans but in other male mammals, the "defend my turf" brain area is larger than their female counterparts,' she said.

    While women too have fits of possessiveness, men are much more likely to become violent when faced with a threat to their love life or territory, she said.

    5. Embraces chain of command

    An unstable hierarchy can cause men considerable anxiety, said Brizendine. But an established chain of command, such as that practiced by the military and many work places, reduces testosterone and curbs male aggression, she said.

    4. Matures over time, really

    Pre-occupation with establishing pecking order, which starts as early as age 6, motivates the "male dance, where they are always putting each other down," added Brizendine.

    "It is better to be aggressive in a verbal jab than to duke it out," she said.

    Psychological studies have shown that one-upmanship holds less appeal for older men. Instead, they pay more attention to relationships and bettering the community, said Brizendine.

    The change is likely aided by the slow natural decline in testosterone as a man ages.

    3. Primed for fatherhood

    The male brain becomes especially primed for cooperation in the months before becoming a father. Fathers-to-be go through hormone changes-prolactin goes up, testosterone goes down-which likely encourage paternal behavior, found a 2000 study in Evolution and Human Behavior.

    2. Daddy-play

    Daddy-specific ways of playing with their kids-more rough-housing, more spontaneity, more teasing-can help kids learn better, be more confidant, and prepare them for the real world, studies have shown. Also, involved dads lessen risky kids' sexual behaviour.

    1. Covets wedding bells, too

    Women want to settle down, and men want to sow their wild oats forever, the refrain usually goes. But this might be one of the largest misconceptions stemming from the U.S. tendency of using undergrads as test subjects.

    Infidelities are most likely to occur before men hit 30, found a study of Bolivian men published in the Proceedings of the Royal Society in 2007. After that, men primarily focus on providing for their families, the study found.(ANI)

     

    69 comments

    • ct  •  1 year 4 months ago
      i dont think all men r bad....i met this wonderful guy...by knowing him i came to knw a lot abt men...i accept that men r more emotional thn women...but equally tough whn time demands nd u know men can cry(more than gals)!!!!....and i think its a gud thing to pour out ur feelings....nd it doesnt mean dat u r sissy...in our world men r taught to be macho nd ironhearted...thats nt gud ....men hav tear glands too...so guys nxt time dont hesitate to pour out ur feelings.....it reduces ur stress nd helps u to cope up wid the situation...caution: but do it before ur loved ones or whom u trust ....gud luck
      • kritant 1 year 4 months ago
        ya dear m completly agree wid u,,,wen i m sad wen i need some one or wen m heart completely full wid tears den my love give her arms to relax me nd helping 2 solve my prblm,,,bt in my life she iz the only person who seing me cried,,,,nt even my family,,,nd after i fully freshed,,,m a guy nd i have feelings,,,so no maters dat thers a boy or girl jst express ur feelings,,,nd believe me it strongs ur love nd trust
    • Coolgirl  •  1 year 4 months ago
      I cannot figure men out and what they are think,,,it is true what Priya said..I have been chase by this guy for about 7 months, I finally fell for him and he suddenly pulled away leaving me heartbroken..it is horrible guys, pls dont do that to us, it is cruel and selfish...Love is not a game guys pls be more considerate.
      • Gurgaon 1 year 4 months ago
        I was chased by a guy for 4 years on the phone. Finally he moved to the same city as me and I decided to invite him and go steady with him. Within a few months he started acting as though I could not do without him, this behaviour is so shallow.
      • A Yahoo! User 1 year 4 months ago
        Girl, by now u shud realise that its only the challenge of getting sm1 who doesnt seem 2 care that matters 2 guys. 1nc u r hooked they lose interest. So u hv 2 learn 2 develop that attitude n become thick skinned. r else u end up getting hurt everytime. Good luck.
      • ShreyaA 1 year 4 months ago
        sangeeta ur really true.bt its so difficlt to bcm thick skinnd
    • sandhya  •  1 year 4 months ago
      Till you dnt xpress ur luv 2 a guy he luvs u.....n da moment u open ur heart he shows hz back.....this are boys....so coward....fear to commit......jz love their career as if girls dnt have a future.....guls can manage both their career n Luv...bt boys....hav da capacity to handle jz 1 at a tym!!!!!Ryt Gulssss????
      • K86 1 year 4 months ago
        B***sh*t....@#$%
        It is an illogical statemnt......
      • Navneet Vineet 1 year 4 months ago
        i too feell so...
        aferall i m a boy.
        so i can know it very well..........
        yeah well said. sandhya......
      • A Yahoo! user 1 year 4 months ago
        Sandhya, u are right.. wen it comes to taking responsibility,, men usually tend to run from it.. and they dun even like to take any blame any day if they are at fault..they directly blame the gal for their mistakes..
    • Mona  •  1 year 4 months ago
      Yes i agree that everybody iz not same. But most of guys are like that............ nd i hate these type of guys to whom is Coolgirl talking about..........they are dogs
      • A Yahoo! user 1 year 4 months ago
        Completely agree wid u.. Men are Dogs...
    • ct  •  1 year 4 months ago
      i guess it all varies with individual...its easy to make a relation but to fulfill it u have to work on it...nd it doesnot depend only on gal or boy.. but both of them...in the beginning one looks at each others goods and everything seems wonderful but as the time goes on u will come to know each others flaws...this is the time u hav to discuss...a relation bcomes succesful only whn u accept each other wid their flaws...so plss knw abt each other before u commit urself ...nd try as much as possible to make it successful ....nd hav a healthy nd a happy life...if any one is nt happy in a relation try to sort it out even thn if it fails its juz gud to let it go...u cnt b happy wid a person who is nt happy wid u ....
    • amit k  •  1 year 4 months ago
      read a lot of comments and I am amazed. How a small article can brings out the inner feeling of a lot of people. In my opinion it all depends on person to person. There are guys who play with girl's emotions and there are girls who play with guy's emotions. So, u cant blame all the guys or all the girls.
    • hemant  •  1 year 4 months ago
      every boys are not same , there are also some good boys but the problem is the number is few. just because of more bad boys the least good ones are been over shadow. i would not hesitate to say that there bad girls also in the world who want only money, jewellary and they considered their husband as a atm card.
      so there are good people as well as bad people.
      • Mitra 1 year 4 months ago
        ya,i support u as u said there r gud as well as bad people bt u need'nt say anything about gls cuz it's not a matter to express ur hesitation etc etc.......
      • Lafore 1 year 4 months ago
        There are bad girls..........lots of them.......we call them feminazi bitches
    • latha  •  1 year 4 months ago
      many still in research behaviour is in research level noone , can understand a single person even if u r spending ur life time with him or her there is always mystery surrounding every indiviuals behaviour and mind set
    • A Yahoo! user  •  1 year 4 months ago
      I agree totally wid Moni.. Men are dogs.. n the females thinking men r god(like pati parmeshwar) are fools...
    • anita  •  1 year 4 months ago
      i am not blaming on men they r not good but most of men , really r not good comparison women.
      becouse of our society. in our society is male dominant society thats y it happen.
      most of men thinking she cant do anything becouse if i leave her society wont accept her
      thats why men exploted women more.
    • pooja  •  1 year 4 months ago
      it seems everyone has a different opinion here.i believe each person is diff,its impossible to judge someone based on studies mentioned above.so gals n boys njoy ur life.n keep d judgin part confined to ur own partners.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  1 year 4 months ago
      100% correct boys are boys they neaver change
      but all are not like same but it is rare case when someone get a true guy
    • Ananya  •  1 year 4 months ago
      To know the reason buzz me on ..............ananyasharma005@yahoo.com
    • Sri  •  1 year 4 months ago
      Men are really emotional and sensitive,,and i love my man,,b'coz he is a baby,,,Women should understand the work and the life they take is all to establish a family and they look for is the partner he loved to be in his hold,,,lovely isn't it,,,
    • Jay  •  1 year 4 months ago
      All Girls will say based on their experience about Boys !!! On Thing is agreed, There r very Few boys from very start look for Genuine Bonding in Relationship !!!!!!!! Also agreed, the good guys are shadowed by these Cheap Guys !!!!! Otherwise, Men r Emotional..... Saw some girls saying, they got badly hurt, even there r Girls, who hurt Guy like anything....... Also one truth is i have seen such girls who r only interested in Guys Money, His Personality & Fun, also some females target for fling ( sex ) & also there r females who will always opt their CAREER against a Guy who truly Loves her !!!!!!!! Difficult to judge....... anyone.....
    • sona  •  1 year 4 months ago
      i agree to some extent....coz my hubby is more emotional and caring than me and it proves to be correct if said abt handling our kid.....
    • Mitra  •  1 year 4 months ago
      may be it's all fake cuz everybody iz not same.
    • Anil  •  1 year 4 months ago
      no body can evaluate the human's state of mind.
    • akash w  •  1 year 4 months ago
      When I read the article, I thought it would b written by another female, warning other females about "certain" male traits. But surprisingly, I found the list to b 100% true. I think a scientific list of male characteristics came before a similar list about female characteristics because MALES MAKE SENSE AND R EASIER TO FIGURE OUT. Women are simply.........UNSTABLE. :)

      Here's the summary of list for u:
      10. More emotional
      9. More vulnerable to loneliness
      8. Focused on solutions
      7. Hard-wired to check out women
      6. Must defend turf
      5. Embraces chain of command
      4. Matures over time, really
      3. Primed for fatherhood
      2. Daddy-play (good for kids)
      1. Infidelities are most likely to occur before men hit 30 (Sorry, I did'nt understand the original title)

      I would like to add more qualities of men to this list:
      0. Men think before talking (women opposite)
      -1. Men know what they want (women don't)
      -2. Men r hardwired to play the primary games of 1) earning a living and 2)wooing potential females. Women r hardwired to fight for men (among themselves) to fullfill the duty of giving birth to fittest offsprings. Human females for centuries have been given the job of managing homes so I think they have become hardwired for that too. I m not sure though, who understands females?

      Infedilety comes hardwired to both the sexes when they see a fitter potential mate, for the same reason of producing fitter offsprings.

      Male - female bickering will never end as long better options exists.

      But finally, I think that it may reduce if we choose partners based on equal intelligence levels rather than biological characteristics. This will generate more agreement than conflicts, but who does that in real world, right?
    • Meena At  •  1 year 4 months ago
      Never ever trust a "Man" completely, no matter what! Even you do say so that you trust him but you dont have to in reality- Bcaz all men are same when it comes to women, when your turn is over with them they start to venture for something new... Also when you show your feelings to them, that is the biggest mistake you ever make' they will be all set to take your advantage and let u in a corner,, knowing that anyway shez going to follow me..Bcaz shez madly in love with me..and this is the fact this is the reality..They can flirt with any1 they want and they want their girl to be modest in every situation this is what a man is'' A Man is never satisfied with one woman there maybe just 1 or 2 in a million who are not as i have mentioned above...So girls out there! Think twice b4 u commit to a MAN...